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Lesson 3 - I'll make a
difference here between masturbation on Your own and masturbation
during sexual intercourse with Your partner or in front of Your
partner. We're talking here predominantly about masturbation as
sexual activity involving only one person. As for the mutual
masturbation check this page.
Now You know it's perfectly normal to do it and You know Your
private parts and how they react to stimulation, there is a question
of (in a lack of better word) how to!? Sexual fantasy is a key thing
in masturbation. Males in general react much better to audio-visual
stimulation than plain fantasy. Thus it is widely spread the use of
pictures and videos of pornographic nature, as well as magazine
covers with gorgeous women to make a sexual fantasy much stronger
and pleasurable. The ability to create sexual fantasies that
stimulate sexual activity is essential to pleasurable masturbation.
The preferences of every individual are different and can be varied,
depending on your mood, setting and experiences. Don't be alarmed if
you find that you are turned on by subject matter that may be
considered taboo. Remember that Your getting in touch with Yourself
here probably on more intimate level than during regular sex with
Your partner.
Many men enjoy masturbating using a lubricant, rather than dry.
Others learn to masturbate before they think of using a lubricant
and never feel a need to include lubricants. However it is a matter
of personal choice. As for the lubricants pre-ejaculate is an excellent lubricant,
although the supply may be somewhat limited. Hand lotion or vaseline
can be used, though, since these contain oils, they are probably not
the best choice if intercourse with a condom is
to follow. A clear, water based gel, such as KY gel, is made for
this purpose and does not destroy condoms.
Some men enjoy using devices while masturbating a vibrator, a
shower massage unit or similar. Many of these devices produce an
interesting, though short-lived effect.
However anything from lubricants and devices to positions and
techniques is a matter of personal choice, just remember it's all
about You and Your pleasure. Now we can talk about positions and
techniques. Back to Prelude 1
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